Let’s begin by discussing exactly what a “coaster” is in terms of toxic relationships. For me, it meant attracting that person that did not have the desire to ‘work’ as hard as I worked in relationships. I had a tendency to attract ‘coasters’. A coaster in my relationships was a partner that did …
Let’s talk about relationships from another viewpoint. What would it look like if you were to recognize the signs beforehand of a toxic relationship? Or, before you get too deeply involved in the relationship? What would you do? Would you still pursue the relationship? Would you ignore the signs? Most …
1)Being loved will make me happy, but you can’t rely on relationships or your happiness. This is one of the biggest misconceptions about being in love. When you begin the journey of new love there is an illusion that you are happier because of the newness the relationship brings into your life. We love …
3 Misconceptions Or Lies We Tell Ourselves About What Being Loved Will Do For Us Read More »
1) You believe it is okay to settle – A relationship should not be forced, it should come naturally. Therefore, we begin to think about the ‘potential’ of a relationship when they have already shown you who they really are. For instance, we have a tendency to try and find the good in even …
6 Unhealthy Toxic Beliefs – How Women Can Learn to Self-Love Read More »
“Pain builds Walls. Healing Builds Doors”. Toxic men will tell you about how they have been wronged in past relationships. Not to share their past, they want you to pity them. They make themselves the victim of their past. They will have terrifying horror stories of their ex. She cheated, was verbally abusive, tormented him emotionally, …